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		<title>Comment on Image statistics say it pays to look your best by Jenn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jenn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 21:52:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am curious about the make-up findings - were there any details about differences between US West vs East Coast? Or US vs Europe or other countries?  

In most of the places I have worked in the last 18 years (mostly marketing departments) - women who wear makeup are the exception rather than the rule - and most of the departments where I have worked have been 90% women.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am curious about the make-up findings &#8211; were there any details about differences between US West vs East Coast? Or US vs Europe or other countries?  </p>
<p>In most of the places I have worked in the last 18 years (mostly marketing departments) &#8211; women who wear makeup are the exception rather than the rule &#8211; and most of the departments where I have worked have been 90% women.</p>
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		<title>Comment on A tale of two networking events by Jenn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jenn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 21:45:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Catherine - I&#039;m so glad that you have a new updated website and I am enjoying reading your blog!  I have always been intrigued by your vocation because it is so far from anything that I usually think about or devote time in my daily life.

I can&#039;t speak for the younger contingent at your meeting but personally.

I&#039;d rather be recognized for my professional, creative &amp; intellectual achievements having heard so much as a child that was where I had to compete to be seen as an equal once I grew up and got out to the &quot;real world.&quot;

Having spent most of my teenage years in hand-me-downs from my male cousins (which was fine with me - jeans and long sleeve button downs were like a uniform) - and being criticized and mocked for it, I just pushed thinking about clothing or appearance back more and more. 

I&#039;m at the point where I think that I look silly if I try to do anything other than wear functional, neutral clothing.  


I went through a phase in my late 20s where I experimented with clothing but got tired of dry cleaning bills and not finding things that fit properly.  I even started wearing belts around 27 or 28 (never even having owned belts before) and amassed a collection of almost 3 dozen pairs of shoes!

Most of my clothing is black and grey.  It always goes together.  I don&#039;t really own anything with patterns and my colors are limited to about 3 (a paris green, a turquoise-y blue, and dark purple).  

Thinking of clothing as a means of self expression is purely academic for me - that&#039;s to say, it&#039;s interesting to observe on other people but I don&#039;t have much to say via my clothing.

Albert Einstein &amp; Steve Jobs both wore &quot;uniforms&quot; - then again, they were geniuses and I&#039;m not.

Sometimes I wish I could just chuck all my clothing and have all the same shirt/pant/shorts so I would never have to think that much about  what I wear.  I think more about people who think a lot about what to wear - a friend came to spend the night and brought with her a GIANT bag on the bus - with 3 add&#039;l pairs of shoes because she wasn&#039;t sure what she wanted to wear the next morning - and clothing that would be like 6 different outfits, cosmetics, jewelry and accessories.  (I swear - I did NOT laugh at her!!).

Also - there&#039;s a sort of group conformist mentality in a lot of corporate situations.  When I worked at a Big Bank, about half the women on my floor dressed right out of LL Bean - khakis, loafers and long sleeve button down women&#039;s shirts.  No other floor was like that - just our floor.  At Big Agency, we had a media group on the other half of the floor - everyone on that side had a very distinct style - both men and women - and you could always from the back when you went into the kitchen if it was someone from the media group.

So - maybe your observation of the younger group of women who were all in jeans and black is a result of one or more of these things:
- group conformity in a tight knit corporate team
- intentionally choosing neutrality to reduce distraction or free up time for other things
- lack of confidence or knowledge of how to improve their appearance with different clothing choices

Sorry for rambling - like I said, I&#039;ve always been fascinated by your vocation and always wished we had the opportunity to discuss it since our positions are so radically different (ie, I&#039;m a total slob and you&#039;re not!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Catherine &#8211; I&#8217;m so glad that you have a new updated website and I am enjoying reading your blog!  I have always been intrigued by your vocation because it is so far from anything that I usually think about or devote time in my daily life.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t speak for the younger contingent at your meeting but personally.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d rather be recognized for my professional, creative &amp; intellectual achievements having heard so much as a child that was where I had to compete to be seen as an equal once I grew up and got out to the &#8220;real world.&#8221;</p>
<p>Having spent most of my teenage years in hand-me-downs from my male cousins (which was fine with me &#8211; jeans and long sleeve button downs were like a uniform) &#8211; and being criticized and mocked for it, I just pushed thinking about clothing or appearance back more and more. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m at the point where I think that I look silly if I try to do anything other than wear functional, neutral clothing.  </p>
<p>I went through a phase in my late 20s where I experimented with clothing but got tired of dry cleaning bills and not finding things that fit properly.  I even started wearing belts around 27 or 28 (never even having owned belts before) and amassed a collection of almost 3 dozen pairs of shoes!</p>
<p>Most of my clothing is black and grey.  It always goes together.  I don&#8217;t really own anything with patterns and my colors are limited to about 3 (a paris green, a turquoise-y blue, and dark purple).  </p>
<p>Thinking of clothing as a means of self expression is purely academic for me &#8211; that&#8217;s to say, it&#8217;s interesting to observe on other people but I don&#8217;t have much to say via my clothing.</p>
<p>Albert Einstein &amp; Steve Jobs both wore &#8220;uniforms&#8221; &#8211; then again, they were geniuses and I&#8217;m not.</p>
<p>Sometimes I wish I could just chuck all my clothing and have all the same shirt/pant/shorts so I would never have to think that much about  what I wear.  I think more about people who think a lot about what to wear &#8211; a friend came to spend the night and brought with her a GIANT bag on the bus &#8211; with 3 add&#8217;l pairs of shoes because she wasn&#8217;t sure what she wanted to wear the next morning &#8211; and clothing that would be like 6 different outfits, cosmetics, jewelry and accessories.  (I swear &#8211; I did NOT laugh at her!!).</p>
<p>Also &#8211; there&#8217;s a sort of group conformist mentality in a lot of corporate situations.  When I worked at a Big Bank, about half the women on my floor dressed right out of LL Bean &#8211; khakis, loafers and long sleeve button down women&#8217;s shirts.  No other floor was like that &#8211; just our floor.  At Big Agency, we had a media group on the other half of the floor &#8211; everyone on that side had a very distinct style &#8211; both men and women &#8211; and you could always from the back when you went into the kitchen if it was someone from the media group.</p>
<p>So &#8211; maybe your observation of the younger group of women who were all in jeans and black is a result of one or more of these things:<br />
- group conformity in a tight knit corporate team<br />
- intentionally choosing neutrality to reduce distraction or free up time for other things<br />
- lack of confidence or knowledge of how to improve their appearance with different clothing choices</p>
<p>Sorry for rambling &#8211; like I said, I&#8217;ve always been fascinated by your vocation and always wished we had the opportunity to discuss it since our positions are so radically different (ie, I&#8217;m a total slob and you&#8217;re not!)</p>
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		<title>Comment on A tale of two networking events by Catherine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Catherine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 17:32:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great point about Lady Gaga and Nicki Minaj, Ressie. I also suspect it has to do with the fact that as we get older, we women become more confident and more comfortable in our own skin. I&#039;m so glad to know you are living in color!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great point about Lady Gaga and Nicki Minaj, Ressie. I also suspect it has to do with the fact that as we get older, we women become more confident and more comfortable in our own skin. I&#8217;m so glad to know you are living in color!</p>
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		<title>Comment on A tale of two networking events by Ressie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ressie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 23:39:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Catherine, I&#039;ve also noticed the blandness with younger folks. One of my neighbors hangs her wash on the clothesline and all of the garments were shades of bleh...Ironically, this is such an expressive generation.  Perhaps this is why Lady Gaga and Nicki Minaj are so popular--they are acting out all of the color fantansies of their cohorts!  Me?  I&#039;m acting out my own color fantasy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Catherine, I&#8217;ve also noticed the blandness with younger folks. One of my neighbors hangs her wash on the clothesline and all of the garments were shades of bleh&#8230;Ironically, this is such an expressive generation.  Perhaps this is why Lady Gaga and Nicki Minaj are so popular&#8211;they are acting out all of the color fantansies of their cohorts!  Me?  I&#8217;m acting out my own color fantasy.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Top 10 dressing mistakes women make (and how to avoid them) by Catherine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Catherine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 22:58:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for the comment, Karen. I wholeheartedly agree, and one of my favorite things to do for my clients is to help them strategize and plan their wardrobes, so they never again say, &quot;I have a closet full of clothes, and nothing to wear!&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for the comment, Karen. I wholeheartedly agree, and one of my favorite things to do for my clients is to help them strategize and plan their wardrobes, so they never again say, &#8220;I have a closet full of clothes, and nothing to wear!&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Top 10 dressing mistakes women make (and how to avoid them) by Karen Hughes</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Hughes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 14:13:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great list Catherine.  My hot buttons are also the &quot;jumping on the trend bandwagon&quot; and I might add in addition to lack of a wardrobe plan....KNOWING how much of your budget you can or should spend!  It&#039;s an eye opening experience to really see what is reasonable based on your income!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great list Catherine.  My hot buttons are also the &#8220;jumping on the trend bandwagon&#8221; and I might add in addition to lack of a wardrobe plan&#8230;.KNOWING how much of your budget you can or should spend!  It&#8217;s an eye opening experience to really see what is reasonable based on your income!</p>
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		<title>Comment on I forgive you, John Galliano by Kenya Aissa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kenya Aissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 10:33:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree...how can I not forgive and move on? I was irked and saddened after watching the cringe-worthy video, but let&#039;s face it...he was intoxicated and clearly looking for shock value. He got that, and so much more, unfortunately. I love his unique and creative gift, and I&#039;m glad he&#039;s moving on and sharing it with us again!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree&#8230;how can I not forgive and move on? I was irked and saddened after watching the cringe-worthy video, but let&#8217;s face it&#8230;he was intoxicated and clearly looking for shock value. He got that, and so much more, unfortunately. I love his unique and creative gift, and I&#8217;m glad he&#8217;s moving on and sharing it with us again!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Trailer Trash Hairdresser by Catherine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Catherine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 02:01:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Dana! Thank you for the warm welcome, and for commenting on my blog post. I very nearly did walk out of the salon. Oops, I guess the cat&#039;s out of the bag! Yes, it was me, not a &quot;friend.&quot; Still looking for a stylist, I might add. :-/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Dana! Thank you for the warm welcome, and for commenting on my blog post. I very nearly did walk out of the salon. Oops, I guess the cat&#8217;s out of the bag! Yes, it was me, not a &#8220;friend.&#8221; Still looking for a stylist, I might add. :-/</p>
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		<dc:creator>Dana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Oct 2011 00:49:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Catherine, 
Welcome to the board! What a great post and a great example for your presentations. I am pretty sure I would not have sat in that woman&#039;s chair. I have often found that hair stylists don&#039;t have fabulous hair, but greasy and unkempt is inexcusable.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Catherine,<br />
Welcome to the board! What a great post and a great example for your presentations. I am pretty sure I would not have sat in that woman&#8217;s chair. I have often found that hair stylists don&#8217;t have fabulous hair, but greasy and unkempt is inexcusable.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Catherine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Sep 2011 19:25:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the feedback, Cheryl, but are you saying you think this is a story about ME? ;-)</description>
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